Perfectionism is one of the main causes of procrastination. The
close link between these two issues means that it’s important to understand
that link and what can be done to help improve productivity. If you’re either a
perfectionist or a procrastinator (or both) and you want to put an end to
putting off your important tasks, let’s look at the reasons why perfectionists
procrastinate.
What is procrastination?
Procrastination is the act of putting off certain tasks until
another time. This could be for many reasons, for example, some are less urgent
or important, or it could be because of perfectionism and a fear of failure or
under-achieving.
What is perfectionism?
Perfectionism is the idea that everything you do has to be nothing
less than perfect. The reality is that nobody can do everything perfect all the
time, so as a basic idea, this is something which should be accepted for
everybody in order to reduce stress and perfectionism. While aiming high is a
positive quality which should be commended, this is different to perfectionism
and often means less stress and pressure on the individual.
What are the reasons that
perfectionists procrastinate?
- Fear of failure – The
fear that you might fail something plays a massive part in putting things
off or not doing them altogether. Perfectionists, in their attempts to do
everything perfect, will often experience an almost crippling sense of
fear that they might fail.
- Fear of under-achieving – It doesn’t have to be complete failure that makes a
perfectionist worry about tackling tasks. The fear of under-achievement
also brings a huge amount of stress and worry to a perfectionist.
- Buying more time – Putting
things off for longer means that there is more time to figure out the
‘perfect’ way of doing something. It also gives a person the best chance
possible at achieving what they see as perfection.
How can a perfectionist
stop procrastinating?
In order for a perfectionist to stop procrastinating, it requires a
phased and gentle approach which is self-led. Although you can get help through coaching or therapy or
receive other forms of professional help, the individual must have the
willpower to attempt to improve and see it through. It is a journey which
involves being kinder to yourself, re-looking at things such as working as a
team together, and practicing your skills to feel more comfortable about
completing tasks to a standard which will satisfy both yourself and others
involved.
To your success,
Dr. Amy
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