..... you must be willing to do a few things differently than the “average” minded person out there. You must learn how to focus your mind! I have a few young ladies in my protégé program and I always stress to them that they must always find a way to focus their mind and separate themselves from the herd. It’s vitally important to accept the fact that if you indeed want to reach a high level of success in your life, you MUST do a few things that the “average” person is not going to be willing to do. Once you decide that you are ready to get on the journey to abundant success you will need to meditate on all of the things – bad habits – that you will need to eliminate from your life. You see, when you are striving for a level of copious success - and not everyone is cut out for this level - it becomes imperative that you develop a type of “laser focus” desire for achieving your written goals. Once you make this decision you cannot allow yourself to be distracted by sidelines or trivial pursuits. You have to learn to focus your attention, efforts and actions on what you want to achieve in life – the things from your success plan.
Here are some suggestions:
(1) First work on improving your mental discipline. Start today by working on the voice inside your head that may be telling you what you cannot do. Start to work on taming that mental clutter by speaking positive affirmations to yourself. Here are five affirmations that I want you to start repeating to yourself throughout the day, everyday:
v I am worthy of success and wealth;
v I am in the process of changing my mindset and will become whatever I put my mind too;
v I am emotionally strong, I am beautiful (handsome), I am a giving person;
v I am in harmony with financial abundance;
v I am so grateful now that I am a (You fill in the blank).
(2) Keep your mind focused on what you desire and avoid thinking about what you don’t want.
(3) Start blocking sources that flood your mind with thoughts of what you do not want in your life. This could be images, television shows, radio broadcasts, places, and also people.
(4) Start visualizing the success that you desire! Imagine in your mind what it would feel like when you start changing for the better and start adopting a new way of thinking – in order to get to the accomplishments that you are desire.
(5) Be in the here and now; strive for excellence! Focus on one thing at a time so you can give what you are working on your undivided attention. Do not allow your mind to jump from one unfinished job to another.
When you are striving for a level of high success you must demonstrate it in your attitude and your appearance. People should be able to detect that there is something different about you: that you already dress and “look” like the person you want to become; that you are willing to go out of your way to help others; that you are willing to give of yourself to learn from others; that you are willing to volunteer to work for someone (without pay) to gain knowledge and experience. You have to be that person who is willing to go the extra mile. When you go to work you should be volunteering for additional assignments in order to put yourself around people who you can learn from. Be willing to help your boss out with some of his/her duties. Remember, you need to separate yourself from the pack; be willing to do what the “average” person will never do.
These are the actions that will help to get you to the top so much quicker; and the great thing about it is that you will not have to step on anyone’s toes, hurt anyone’s feelings, or take away from anyone else to get what you need. The only thing you will need to do is to change your mindset and be willing to do more. Are you willing to step out of the “average” box and step up to greatness?
Be Blessed!
Your Success Coach,
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